BHR Swim Team Code of Conduct
Parent & Swimmer Guidelines
Team Values & Goals
We function as a unified, inclusive team of swimmers, parents, and staff, fostering respect for everyone, including opponents.
- Support the team through volunteer efforts and active participation to the best of your ability.
- Make practices productive and effective by focusing on skill improvement, hard work, and a fun environment.
Swimmer Expectations
Practice Guidelines:
- Arrive on time with goggles and (for girls) hair tied up to make it easy for putting on your swim cap
- Replace horseplay with hard work and give full attention to coaches.
- Follow basic practice etiquette:
- No talking while the coach is speaking.
- Keep hands to yourself.
- No foul language or inappropriate gestures.
- Listen attentively and follow instructions.
- No bullying or aggressive play.
- Practices are meant to be fun, but can be hard at times!—just do your best! Coaches notice effort.
- Stay for the entire practice unless a parent or designated pickup person signs you out.
- Report any misconduct or bullying immediately to coaches or team leaders.
- Notify coaches of any injuries immediately.
Meet Protocol:
- Be on time, in place, and ready to swim your events.
- Use positive and encouraging language toward all swimmers.
- Win with gratitude and lose with grace.
- Stay within designated team areas and avoid restricted spaces.
- Respect meet facilities—no vandalism or damage to team or venue property.
- Always give your best effort.
- Theft of any kind is strictly prohibited—turn in any found items, especially goggles!
Parent Expectations
Communication & Conduct:
- We have a swim team committee. The committee is open to anyone that would like to own certain roles/responsibilities over the course of the season.The swim team operates more efficiently when parents step up and bring creative ideas.
- If you have a complaint, try to suggest a solution as well. We are all volunteers!
Volunteer & Meet Responsibilities:
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Meet Volunteer Policy:
- Sign up for minimum volunteer requirements before the season begins.
- Find your own replacement if you cannot fulfill your duty.
- Arrive on time and be in place by 5:30 PM for all meets.
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Meet Etiquette:
- Please let the coaches coach during meets. If you have a concern, please find the TSA BHR representative( Erin McGowan, Samantha Hall, or Ellen Burns) with a complaint during a meet.
- Expect unpredictable situations—missed events, weather delays, etc. Keep perspective—it’s just summer league!
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Conduct Expectations:
- Please check to see if your swimmer is in relays. There are times we have to switch kids into a relay last minute if someone is sick. Please try and stay until the end of possible (7 & ups).
Practice Attendance & Accountability:
- If a swimmer misbehaves in practice, coaches will decide on consequences, including:
- Sitting out until behavior improves.
- Potential suspension or removal from the team based on the severity of the infraction.
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Meet Attendance:
- Decline your attendance in advance if missing a meet—otherwise, we assume you are coming.
- Be patient with weather-related delays—we follow TSA guidelines and expect swimmers to remain until a decision is made.
Final Reminder: Team Over Individual
Our team operates with the best interests of everyone in mind. Each individual’s actions affect the group. Parents set the example for a team-first mindset, which trickles down to the swimmers. Let’s work together to create a positive, inclusive, and successful swim season!

